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Move from Carlton to Branch creates burden

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     As a college student, I’m not big on change. I’m not sure if it’s because of my anxiety or because my school and workloads are so overwhelming, I need everything to stay the same so I don’t have to stress about anything else. Whatever the reason, I don’t like change. If I had it my way, I would have this campus back to the same way it was when I was a freshman four years ago. One thing that has changed recently that has given me so much grief is the move of the library, tutoring center, and campus media from the Carlton Center to Branch Hall.

     In a lot of ways, the reasons I dislike this move so much are selfish. I’ve been working for the Stallion since my second year on this campus and it has always been at the bottom of the Carlton Center. There was once when the Stallion office had to move but we moved across the hall and managed to adapt quickly. That office became our home so when we heard the news that we would have to move again, this time across campus, it was devastating; but I might be overreacting.

     Moving from the Carlton Center to Branch Hall put a strain on the workload for the Stallion. When we first moved over, our work came to a stop for a few hours because we didn’t have the network we needed to access the resources we needed to get the paper done. On top of that, our space is much smaller than the previous office.

The new Stallion office in the Branch Center. Photo by TeeKayy King.

The placement of the new office makes my day to day schedule more difficult than it should. When the Stallion was located at the bottom of the Carlton Center, it was in the middle of campus. I was able to go from my room at Place to the office and wait until my next class because my classes were always in Conger or King. It takes 30 seconds to walk from the Carlton Center to Conger or King. Now that we’ve moved to Branch, that makes my procrastination between classes more difficult. I shouldn’t have to walk that far to get to class. This is ridiculous.

     I mentioned that my reasoning for hating this move was purely selfish but look at it from other student’s eyes. Moving everything from the Carlton Center put a strain on the students around campus. Not being able to have a set place to study, use a computer or get tutored hurts students. The computers and printers that the library provides were not available at the beginning of the semester. Students had to clamor together in the already cramped up space that is the Town Hall computer lab.

     I understand that moving everything over to Branch Hall was necessary because of the renovations that will be happening to the Carlton Center, but there was a better way to do it. It would have been better if they moved the top floors of the Carlton Center first, focused on the renovations there and left everything at the bottom alone. It should have been taken one step at a time. But, what do I know? I’m just a college student, not an architect or contractor, and I may not see the whole picture.

Dear Filly: “My parents put pressure on me…”

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Dear Filly,

     My parents are really hard to deal with. They put a lot of pressure on me to conform to what they want, and because I still live at home, it’s hard to get away from that. I feel like I’m constantly disappointing them. How do I deal with the stress that this is causing?

Sincerely,

Struggling

Dear Struggling,

     Parents are one of the hardest things to deal with as a student. It’s often hard for them to accept that you are now an adult, and that you are growing up and becoming who you are, many times becoming something different from what they expected you would be.

     The best way to start is to be upfront with them. Sit down and have an honest conversation with them about how you’re feeling. Parents don’t always realize how they are making you feel, especially since they often tend to see us as their babies forever. Often, just a straightforward talk is exactly the remedy.

     When you’re feeling down on yourself, always remember to lean on your friends and the people who do support you. Taking the time to remember how loved you are is often the best help.

Good luck!

Filly

The problem with the TEDx pedophilia talk

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     In an early 2018 TEDx talk, Madeleine van der Bruggen tries to get audience members to think about pedophilia in a different manner: by relaying how high the chances are of an individual actually knowing a closeted pedophile. Bruggen’s method of dealing with pedophiles includes fighting with words and “understanding.”

     A psychologist and criminologist who works for the Dutch National Police, Bruggen continuously reminds the crowd of 200 that statistically, somebody in the crowd has or has acted on pedophilic thoughts. Instead of treating the idea of a pedophile with extreme prejudice, as the rest of society would, Bruggen pushes forth an agenda intended to sympathize and even understand pedophiles.

     Bruggen said, “0.5 to 3 percent of our male population has some form of pedophilic interest…let’s say there are eighty males in the crowd right now; statistics indicate that there will be one or two of you struggling with pedophilic interest.”

     Pedophilia has become a running issue in the contemporary world’s discussion as more knowledge of the disgusting actions happening on the dark web manage to find their ways to media outlets and as pedophiles are now actively pushing to be recognized as part of the LGTBQ+ movement.

     Many advocates use the same reasoning as Bruggen: it’s a personal issue that can’t be helped. These advocates also look to the past for answers, reminding the world that at one time, being openly gay led to violence being incited and even led to the social outing in extreme cases. Pedophiles today fall under the same situations and even see this as a sign of acceptance in the future.

     However, the age of consent stands solid in this debate. The idea behind an age of consent revolves around a child not being able to take proper care of themselves, thus making it illegal for children to consent to having any sort of sexual intercourse. Children of or around this age aren’t considered as able to make decisions that are well-planned and well thought through.

     While Bruggen’s attempt may come off as a sympathizer’s efforts, her take on combating the mental issues can be effective. Social stigmas, however, stunt this solution and make it nearly an impossible route for modern offenders.